Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Leaving Your Legacy


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Over the past few weeks, there has been blanket coverage over the tragic death of Michael Jackson. There have been vigils, memorial shows and gatherings across the globe, where fans have united in their grief to mourn the loss of the "king of pop".

Jackson was known and applauded around the world for his music, but his private life often came to the fore which in recent years, led him to become a virtual recluse before his much anticipated comeback tours.
There have been countless interviews with friends, relations, industry experts and media executives, all giving their opinion and thoughts on his demise and what he would be remembered for.

Although there are different viewpoints, Jackson's legacy will largely be that of his music which made him such a phenomenon. Bare music store shelves and record download figures following his death substantiate that he was one of the greatest performers of our time. The legacy of his music will love through his fans - both those within the entertainment industry and those who loved his music.

It often takes the death of someone - either high profile like Jackson, or someone closer to us, to make us acknowledge the fragility of life. It is common to take stock of what we have and what we have yet to achieve and often renews the importance of living every moment of our lives to the full.

These thoughts can also lead us to think about our own legacy - what are we likely to be remembered for? What do we want to be remembered for? If there are differences in your answers to these questions, it's time to get working on your legacy. When coaching clients, it is common practice to first identify a client's goal and then work back from the goal to identify the tasks that needed to be completed in order to achieve it. Working on your legacy works in exactly the same way.

For example, imagine you wanted to be remembered as someone who was kind, generous and willing to help anyone in need. Think about what you would need to do in order to be remembered that way. Write down what you think you would be doing in order to be remembered as someone kind and generous and, from there, you can work back towards this moment and list one small thing you can do today, right now that brings you closer to your legacy.

So your plan could be something like this - you will carry out at least one random act of kindness starting today and continue each day. You could follow this up by making a regular donation to a charity close to your heart or investigate the volunteering opportunities available and take on a rewarding and fulfilling role helping others.

Working on your legacy isn't morbid, it's quite the reverse. It can help you to clarify the person you want to be and what you want to do with your life. Your legacy is a celebration of your life - the person you are, the things that you do and what impact you have on those around you. Using the example above, would it be a bad thing if someone was so motivated by your voluntary work that they did the same too? Of course not.

Enriching your own life and achieving your goals is not only empowering for you, it inspires and encourages others to make changes in their lives too.

So do a stock-take of your life today. If there are things you aren't doing in your life right now, or there are things you want to change - START NOW! You have a life to live and a legacy to leave!

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

2 Offensive Costumes You Should Never Ever Wear


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Every year people gather to have a load of fun at Halloween parties. There is always one person that wants to make a "Big splash," at the party by wearing the most impressive costume. Well there is a small group of people who go out of their way to make a statement at some Halloween parties. These are the people that wear offensive costumes. There are about 5,000 people per month searching on Google for these types of costumes. Why in the world would anyone want to wear offensive costumes?

It is more or less fun and some claim that they are the life of the party when they wear offensive costumes. Well that depends on the crowd at the party. You know what, there are also parties where that is the main theme. When looking around on forums like answer.yahoo you would find people asking questions like, "What are the most offensive costumes ever? Well, following are two other questions asked about these costumes, with an answer to each question which states why those types of costumes should never be worn no matter what.

Question #1 - Which 2009 celebrity death would be most offensive for a Halloween costume?

Let us take a look at an extremely popular celebrity who died in 2009, Michael Jackson. No one should dress in an offensive costume that represents or displays disrespect in any way. Any costume worn should be in celebration of his life. It does not matter who the celebrity is, there should always be respect. Respect is also due to the family left behind.

Question #2 - Are terrorist Bin Laden Halloween costumes offensive (in NYC)?

Although it is Halloween and anyone can dress and be anyone or anything they want to be on this day, Bin Laden offensive costumes would not do the trick. I think it is down right dangerous. One poor guy that tried this on Halloween almost got killed. Well certainly NYC is definitely one place that you should never, by all means wear this costume.

Although there is such a thing as outrageous, offensive, and funny costumes, there is also a limit. There are just some boundaries that must not be crossed. As such, there must be a willingness to put in the time and effort to research what goes into a real politically incorrect costume that does not cross certain boundaries. Remember, portraying someone whether dead or alive today, should be done only in good taste. Also one should steer clear of wearing a costume that portrays a terrorist. Therefore there are just some offensive costumes that should never ever be worn.

Monday, September 27, 2010

Teeth Whitening - Did Michael Jackson Ever Use Home Teeth Whitening Kits?


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Very few people know how many cosmetic surgeries and treatments Michael Jackson underwent. It is true that his skin color was brown in his youth which was whitened by different cosmetic and bleaching procedures. However nobody is sure if he went for teeth whitening as well. Despite his alleged drug addictions and erratic eating habits his shining smile was one of the brightest in recent times.The kind of shining teeth he had was not possible unless he used some teeth whitening product.

You need not be a celebrity like the Pop king to have a shining set of white teeth. The teeth whitening is no longer a privilege of celebrities and super rich people. It can be used by anyone. Not only can you enhance your overall appearance and your face value but also feel the high confidence level from inside. Yellowish brown teeth make people lean away from you no matter how genuinely you smile. On the other hand if your smile is shining white people will pay more attention to you.

When regular brushing and flossing is not enough to keep the whiteness of your tooth intact, you need a bleaching a system that can go deep into the inner layers of your teeth and remove the stains chemically. Peroxide based bleaching agent is used in almost every whitening kit. Its correct combination with other ingredients is what really decides the efficacy of final product. While the low concentration of peroxide may be ineffective, very high concentration may lead to sensitivity of tooth. In some cases it may also lead to irritation of gums.

Saturday, September 25, 2010

Naughty Halloween Costumes and Other Ideas For Your Halloween Party


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Remember those Halloweens when your mother would dress you up for Trick or Treat? Remember being all embarrassed when she'd bring out pictures of you covered you in a white sheet with holes for your eyes to show your friends? Or perhaps she dressed you as a huge pumpkin, complete with the green felt hat for the stump. As a child, nothing could be as bad as having the worst costume at Halloween. But everyone's been there a time or two.

Now, you're all grown up and Halloween is here once more. You may not be young enough to go Trick or Treat-ing, but that doesn't mean you can't party! In fact, this is the chance for you and your friends to show off those naughty Halloween costumes you've been hiding in your closet the whole year!

How do you plan the most rockin' Halloween party for grown-ups this year? Here are some tips to get you started:

1. Decide on a theme.

Everybody knows you're supposed to go to a Halloween party in a costume. But it would be extra special if you could think of a particular theme, so everyone could dress accordingly. If you're a fan of C.S. Lewis, for example, you can have a Narnia theme for your party. Imagine a room full of centaurs, witches, dwarves, talking animals and fawns! If you're all for detective stories, you can have a Sherlock Holmes themed party. Or have a Superhero theme. This way, you can even plan the decorations and food around the theme!

2. No Costume, No Party

Let's face it. There are party poopers. Those stubborn souls who refuse to cooperate and come to the party as, well, themselves. Bo-ring! In order to discourage such behavior, why don't you put a warning in your invitation: those who don't come in costume will have to pay a fee. And make them pay it! It's your party after all, and they have to play by your rules if they want in on the fun.

3. Food

Since its Halloween anyway, you might as well go all out and prepare "Halloween food" as well. Serve alcoholic Bloody Mary's and bowls of gummy worms and other gummy creepy-crawlies. Serve drinks in goblets and use a lot of candles. Just remember to be careful, of course!

4. Entertainment

What's Halloween without a little scare? Set up a small stage where your friends can share ghost stories. Assign one of your closest buds to be the official "spooker" of the night: tell him to jump out of dark corners, slip in and out of seemingly deserted rooms (wearing white) or suddenly shut the lights in the middle of the party. This may not really terrify, but it could provide your guests with a good laugh. If you're into dancing, you can also set up a dance floor and choose songs appropriate for the occasion. Think Michael Jackson's Thriller.

With these tips, you'll be on your way to throwing that spectacular party. Good luck and have a smashing Halloween!

Friday, September 24, 2010

Homemade Michael Jackson Billie Jean Halloween Costume


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Many people are planning to pay homage to the only king of pop by dressing up like him in one of his extraordinary costumes this Halloween. There are several costume stores that sells immense variety of Michael Jackson costumes. However, you can add more weight to its importance by wearing your own homemade Michael Jackson costume.

The materials you need to make your own costume are black jacket, black undershirt, black pants, white glove and white socks. These can be bought at your favorite clothing store. You also need several packs of shiny large size black and silver sequins, small size silver sequins, glue, glue stick and a glue gun found at any craft store. Here's how you can make your own homemade Michael Jackson Billie Jean costume:

First Step - The Jacket

Recreate Michael Jackson's Billie Jean jacket by removing the collar portion of the jacket, and just sew the removed portion together. Then, completely cover the jacket with shiny large black sequins using a glue stick and a glue gun. Glue each of the sequins into the surface of the jacket. Just be careful when handling the glue gun since this can be hot. Large sequins will lessen the time to completely cover the whole jacket with sequins.

Second Step - The Undershirt

Once the jacket is done, do the same thing on the black undershirt. This time, do not remove the collar, and use silver large sequins instead of the black one. Glue each of the sequins into the black undershirt. There's no order to be followed when putting the sequins into the shirt. As long as the entire shirt will be covered, then you are doing a great job.

Third Step - The Pants

Choose black matching pants that are short for your height, but, fits well on the waist. Michael Jackson's hanging pants are one of his popular trademarks. However, if you have your own black pants that you do not already use, then you can just cut it off shorter and sew the pants under it.

Fourth Step - The One-piece Glove and Socks

Make your own shiny one piece glove and socks by covering them with small size silver sequins. Since the sequins are quite small, a glue gun can be dangerous to use to put them together. Perhaps you can use fabric glue, and paste them into the glove and socks. Let them dry overnight before using them to secure their attachment.

Now, wear your black shoes, do the jheri-curl hairdo and makeup. Practice his moon walking dance move, and you are ready to go as Michael Jackson in your own homemade Billie Jean Halloween costume. This is an easy to make homemade costume than any other costumes for Halloween. Surely, you can pay tribute to your favorite pop star with this homemade Billie Jean costume.

Thursday, September 23, 2010

Michael Jackson's Thriller - Album Review


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People often talk about how the amount of copies Michael Jackson's 1982 album Thriller has sold. People often bring up that it's the biggest selling album of all time. They bring up all of the awards it's won.

All of that stuff is great for the trivia nerd in all of us (and I've certainly got one in me) but what really makes Thriller remarkable is the music itself. While most pop music from 1982 sounds positively dated today, I believe most of the tracks from Thriller still sound just as fresh in 2009 as they did 27 years earlier.

The album opener "Wanna Be Startin' Somethin'" is the most over the top song on the album and it says something that he opens the album with this one. There's so much packed into this song, it's bursting at the seams. These days most hit songs have about 1/3 of the imagination that this song has packed into it (and that's being generous.)

The three most known songs on the album are "Thriller," "Billie Jean," & "Beat It." In fact these are arguably the three most well known songs of Michael Jackson's entire career. Amazingly they come one right after the other on the album. How many albums have three songs that memorable one after the other?

It seems the music video for "Thriller" is talked about all the time. But what about the song itself? The video wouldn't have been so great if there wasn't an awesome soundtrack for it.

"Billie Jean" is so great that it really doesn't even need me to say anything about it here. It's the ultimate dance pop song. It demands you to the dance floor but it also has an irresistible melody and interesting lyrics that beg you to sing along.

"Beat It" featured rock guitarist Eddie Van Halen. When you think about it, that's quite an interesting move to make for an R&B pop artist like Michael Jackson. People forget what an original idea it was for him to do such a rocking tune at that time. His groundbreaking ideas were so influential that it's difficult to see them in their original context now.

Those three songs are fantastic but it's some of the others that really tickle me these days. "PYT (Pretty Young Thing)," "Human Nature," & "Baby Be Mine" are all wonderful songs that were not huge hits so they sometimes get overlooked by casual fans. These are great songs. Forget the "Greatest Hits" albums because they don't include great songs like these. You need to get Thriller.

Even the album's lesser songs have their moments and their charms. "The Girl is Mine" is a silly duet with Beatles legend Paul McCartney but it's actually quite enjoyable once you accept it for what it is. "The Lady in my Life" takes awhile to get going but once the groove sets in, it's a cool song.

One thing that I definitely feel is too often overlooked with Michael Jackson is his songwriting ability and Thriller was really the first proof that he was a great songwriter (although he did write one song, the #1 hit "Don't Stop 'til You Get Enough" for Off the Wall.)

Michael Jackson has the sole songwriting credit on four of the nine songs on this remarkable album: "Wanna Be Startin' Somethin'," "Billie Jean," "Beat It," & "The Girl is Mine." Writing four songs for Thriller was just the beginning, because from 1987's Bad through 2001's Invincible Jackson would write about 90% of his album's original songs (I'm not counting his covers of "Smile" & "Come Together" in my quick & dirty estimate.)

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

How to Draw a Portrait of Michael Jackson


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Many artists have the penchant to sketch their favorite stars from different genre and musicians are often the preferred choices. The 'king of pop,' Michael Jackson, was one of the stars the artists most widely covered. His face had some distinguishing characteristics that make his portrait a typical job to execute. Similarly, he was often depicted performing some of his most popular dance steps. To help you identify and replicate these idiosyncrasies, here is a step-by-step guide to sketch Michael Jackson:

• Reference Image. The first step would be to obtain an appropriate reference picture. Keep in mind the complexity levels - face only, full-length, or otherwise. You can choose from the wide collection available on the internet.

• Scale and Proportions. Decide upon the size of the portrait vis-à-vis the reference picture. Adopt the relative ratios of the various elements as present in the original image.

• Outlines. Study the actual contours first before beginning to sketch light outlines for the whole figure. Such a skeletal sketch will give you an idea about the accuracy of posture, structure, and proportions. Use a fine eraser that does not wear out the drawing base surface greatly.

• Facial features. Start with the outmost identifiable boundaries for each individual feature and move inwards, including details. For instance, use eye sockets for eye area, imaginary curvilinear lines for nose, roughly semicircular structure for ears, and so on.

• Distinguishing Factors. Michael Jackson's face had some distinct characteristics that need to be factored in. Some of them include a remarkable square jaw, broad nose, thick small lips, and near-perfect eyebrows. Jackson always maintained a slim, athletic build. Some of his signature dance forms, like moonwalk and toe dance regularly appear in his full-length pictures. However, he continued to experiment with his facial looks throughout his career. Therefore, depending upon the date of your reference picture, some of the features like cheekbones, lips, and nose might vary in different degrees.

• Hair. Michael Jackson had wavy and flowing tresses, which he wore medium or long. In most cases, he had strands or well-made locks over his forehead or the sides of his face. Sketching curly hair is much trickier than sketching the straight one. Therefore, pick your reference photograph carefully. If you are not comfortable with drawing such hair do, opt either for a photo with lesser-exposed hair or any of his later images when he wore straightened hair.

• Shading. It is very important to use appropriately aligned retrace lines and shading to add the effect of light and detailed features. For highlighting these effects, use slanting pencil strokes and tortillion (a tool for smudging pencil lines).

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

Michael Jackson - The King of Popularity


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The great dame Elizabeth Taylor gave Michael Jackson his all-popular nickname king of pop. By its essence, this would mean Popular Music. But with the scope of influence of MJ, this has come to mean popularity. And what a King he is, as evidenced by the global depression of all his fans.

Imagine there were a reported twelve people who committed suicide because of his sudden death.

Popularity has always been a double-edged sword because as much as it attracts fame and fortune, it also attracts negativity and rumors. MJ throughout the years has experienced it all - from all the musical accolades to the most pressing scandals.

Of course his global popularity was helped by his early start in the name of show business. In fact, it was too young. Michael has been performing since the age of five and carried on towards the success of the Jackson Five.

He then embarked on a solo career with the 1978 album Off the Wall. This propelled him to new heights as he released the album Thriller in 1982. He became a worldwide household name from there on out. He was in all aspects a popular culture icon.

Here is an interesting aspect of his popularity through the eyes of normal people. A disc jockey, who was working in a record bar back when Thriller was released, related that the types of people who brought Thriller were really of various niches and groups of people. Punk rockers, old ladies, young children - the spectrum was really unlimited.

MJ also used his popularity in order to communicate strong messages against poverty, famine, injustices and the likes. This was one of the more influential people taking a stand, challenging ordinary people to do the same. This is one of his memorable acts for mankind - embodied in the songs Heal the World, We Are the World and the Earth Song, among others.

He communicated all his emotions and beliefs through his music. In the end all the negative rumors and issues thrown at him will be forgotten but his music will remain in the hearts of people. He was creativity embodied, truly a bundle of joy given to us as a young child with the Jackson 5.

Indeed, MJ has given us a roller coaster ride of a life. It was a mixed and convoluted collage of contributions to popular culture which will be remembered very well for a very long time.

I guess with the way the world mourned his death it is fair to include MJ in the echelon of names which have truly shaped a century. Elvis, The Beatles - there were really a few and Michael is now one of them.

We may never know what Michael still has up in his sleeves for his 50-date comeback concert to kick off in London. We really wouldn't know. Even if a 2-minute video of his dress rehearsal performing They Don't Really Care About Us two days before his death surfaced, it was not enough to satiate our need to see him perform again.

But here was someone who did see him up close. Ken Ehrlich, the executive producer of the Grammys, was invited by Jackson to watch the rehearsal the night before MJ died. Here was what he had to say:

"Watching him rehearse these trademark dance moves that he created, that nobody did before, you could say James Brown, but he created [them], they belong to him. And then you've watched 25 years or more, 30 years or more people doing those moves, and remembering that they all came from him. That's his legacy."

The king of pop will live long in our hearts forever.

Monday, September 20, 2010

Michael Jackson Only Released Six Studio Albums in the 30 Years From 1979 Through 2009


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Michael Jackson's first album as an adult solo artist was 1979's Off the Wall which was released when MJ was only 19 years old. Up to that point Jackson was more well known as the lead singer of the Jackson Five than as a solo artist although he did have a solo #1 single in 1972 with "Ben."

Off the Wall established Jackson as a star in his own right (apart from the Jackson Five.) It included two #1 singles "Don't Stop 'til You Get Enough" & "Rock with You" and has sold over 7 million copies to date in the United States alone.

His next album, 1982's Thriller, established Jackson as a true superstar. In fact Jackson was so "big" during this time that probably the only valid comparisons as far as level of fame can be made with Elvis Presley in the 1950s and The Beatles in the 1960s.

Thriller went on to be the biggest selling studio album in world history and it still holds that title today. Thriller was more than just an album, it was a phenomenon and it was known for more than it's music. The music videos made for the album changed the medium forever. In particular the groundbreaking "Thriller" video is likely the most famous video ever made and many still consider it to be the greatest achievement in music video history.

At this point Michael Jackson was the biggest pop star in the world. But over the next 27 years (until his untimely tragic death on June 25, 2009) he released only four studio albums: 1987's Bad, 1991's Dangerous, 1995's HIStory, and 2001's Invincible.

So was Michael really so "unproductive" during these 27 years or was he holding back a lot of recorded material? There are rumors that the latter is true. In fact, earlier this year it was reported that Jackson has over 100 songs recorded that have yet to be released and that he purposely set aside to only be released following his death.

Is that true? I don't know. But if it is it gives MJ fans something to look forward to. Even though the "king of pop" is gone, he may still have more music to share with us after all. 

Saturday, September 18, 2010

Evolution and the Rock Star - Michael Jackson's Death and the Psychology of Hero Worship


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Michael Jackson's death is a reminder of the vitality of America's (and the world's) cult of celebrity. The intensity of the global public response moves one to ask: why is society so deeply affected by the death of a person who was known for bizarre behavior and questionable judgment? Evolutionary psychology provides a helpful perspective.

When evolutionary psychologists observe that a behavior is widespread and common in a particular species, they first seek to find out whether such behavior is "adaptive," meaning, beneficial from a reproductive point of view. Hero-worship is interesting in this respect because we find versions of it in all societies. Our earliest recorded literature, the Epic of Gilgamesh, was concerned primarily with the lives of two heroes. From Odysseus to Elvis, great performers have evoked veneration. Why?

Public performance can be understood as a form of genetic signaling. This is one reason why young animals play. When puppies frolic and run about playfully, they are sending very serious messages to future competitors and future mates about their genetic fitness. A puppy that is especially big or fast in play is communicating with competitors ("you won't want to mess with me when I grow up") and future mates ("my genes are the best - you'll have great kids with me").

It makes sense, therefore, for youngsters to enjoy play (they do) and to be great "show-offs" (they are). In fact, the whole purpose of play, from an evolutionary perspective, is precisely to "show off" our exceptional genetic fitness. As we grow older and mature into sexually active adults, we don't really stop playing. Instead, our play becomes deadly serious (we begin to call it "work" or "art"), and many of us become even more extreme "show-offs". We'd better. Our "performances" on the job or in social occasions are the most likely indicators of whether or not we will succeed in the reproductive marketplace.

Although there are many ways of displaying genetic fitness, humans appear especially attuned to verbal, musical or athletic performance. Our top politicians, actors, musicians and sports stars receive overwhelming adulation. Verbal and musical displays likely evolved as a form of competitive play meant to signal intelligence. "Playing the dozens" and hip-hop dissing contests probably have roots in human behavior stretching back hundreds of thousands of years. As humans evolved into more intelligent creatures, the pressure of sexual selection put a premium on displays correlated with intelligence.

Thus, when musical superstars perform in public, they are inserting an ancient evolutionary key into a special lock in our brains. When the key turns, we receive an exhilarating blast of dopamine, the brain's own version of cocaine, the ultimate feel-good drug.

The fascinating thing about public performance is that it feels good to the performer as well as to the audience. Again, from an evolutionary perspective, this is to be expected. The performer's brain is being rewarded because evolution has provided a great stimulus (a dopamine fix) for us to show off successfully whenever we can get away with it. Doing so maximizes our chances of attracting a desirable mate. Showing off feels good. Showing off in front of a large audience feels great.

The audience also finds its brains rewarded by evolution as well, but for different reasons. Why do we enjoy watching exceptional performances? There are three reasons. First, spectacular performances are in a sense "instructive". Humans are the most imitative species on earth. Much of our intelligence has to do with our ability to model and mimic adaptive behavior. It makes sense for us to be especially attentive to superior performance of any kind - the more we enjoy it, the closer we will pay attention to it, and the more likely that we will learn something from it. Second, if we feel that we are somehow socially or emotionally linked to the performer, we are encouraged by the increased chance that we or our offspring will share in the genetic bounty represented by that performer. Third, the more we ingratiate ourselves with the performer, as by displaying submissive and adoring behavior, the more likely we are to earn the performer's esteem, and with it, a chance to mate with the performer and endow our offspring with the performer's superior genes.

It seems likely that humans have been programmed by evolution to turn either into rock-stars or groupies (or both). Which path we take depends on our location within the competitive space of our generation's gene-pool. If we are the best singer or dancer of our generation, we will be tempted to perform: the rewards, both in terms of our brain's dopamine revels and in the attention of sexually-attractive mates, could be huge.

Unfortunately, while it makes sense - from an evolutionary perspective -- for members of our species to be attracted to musical genius, it does not necessarily make sense from an individual perspective. Many people have learned this in the most concrete way, by marrying musicians (I did). My eldest son inherited exceptional musical talent, so my genes are happy. My genes were never concerned with my wife's operatic temper (she's a mezzo-soprano), that's been purely my affair. Evolution promises us adorable children; it doesn't promise us a rose garden.

Michael Jackson's fans have to some extent been tricked by evolution. Watching the Gloved One's uncanny gyrations and masterful crooning released entire oceans of their cerebral dopamine, but that did not change the fact that their hero was a very weird man.

Indeed, Michael Jackson's life represents the very opposite of wisdom, the opposite of what one should admire or seek to emulate in a role-model. Dopamine-rushes can be addictive, exactly like cocaine. Young Michael's success as a child prodigy may have destroyed his chances for happiness as an adult. He was never able to improve upon the Peter Pan-like ecstasies he achieved as a child star, so he spent his life in a perpetual attempt to remain a child. This is already very unhealthy at age 20 or age 30. At 40 or 50, it is a sign of mental illness.

Evolution has left our brains vulnerable to deceptive evolutionary keys. Fortunately, it has also endowed us with an alarm system called "reason." We can learn to recognize our ancient evolutionary triggers for precisely what they are - stimuli to do things that may or may not be good for us. Nothing can stop that dopamine from flowing once our fingers start snapping to "I'm Bad," but our reason can stop us from taking the whole thing too seriously. And it should.

We should not disparage the pleasures and delights of participation in spectacles. Whether we find ourselves cheering in a sports stadium or at a jazz concert, our delight is deep and real. We should indulge in this joy - it is one of the highlights of human experience. However, we should look for role models in the people we really know and trust around us, not in musical superstars, no matter how gifted.

Friday, September 17, 2010

Facing Fear Head On


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Addressing the online social media is a recent addition to my daily list of tasks in marketing my book. Adding tweets and re-tweets to my six months of self-imposed exile are making me feel like the Birdman of Alcatraz. I've been writing non-stop since January, and now I'm hooked, though it's a far better addiction than others that have tugged at my soul unceasingly.

One day last week, I left the house for supplies, and the world seemed strangely unfamiliar to me for a moment with cars and trucks zooming by at the speed of light. Tons of steel were following too closely, and my life was threatened by hot-rodders zigzagging around me to arrive at a red light that turned green as I slowly approached the intersection. I never felt safe driving in Florida, and now I'm a bit more paranoid about becoming a statistic. It occurred to me after the routine drive that we're calm in the face of danger, but afraid of things that aren't life threatening at all. We should be afraid of tons of steel coming at us like grounded missiles-at least, scared enough to throw the cell phone in the back seat and to pay closer attention.

A few moments later, the telephone rang, and my heart began to throb. I know that I'm late with my mortgage payment, and I know that the call will be from some Type A sales rep demanding to know how I plan on coming up with the money. I'll beg. I'll cry and maybe start speaking in tongues so the loan shark will hang up. God, I hate this. I'm salivating to the sound of a bell like some Pavlovian dog. Why should I be afraid of what some stranger tells me through the mouthpiece of a telephone. Ain't nothin gonna happen cause you're a couple weeks late. Your financial life will improve before they take action. Logic doesn't help much, though. I need to be desensitized. Take charge. They can't hurt you all the way from India or wherever they are.

Hold on. The phone's ringing. I wipe the slobber from my chin and pick up the receiver, knowing that I'm speaking first. Whoever speaks last loses.

"Listen, I don't give a damn who you are or what you want. Leave me alone," I announce bravely, boldly.

Then comes the response, and I shrink in my chair. "Sorry, Dad. I didn't know it was you."

Thursday, September 16, 2010

Offshore Divorce - Ten Good Reasons to Choose a Quickie Foreign Divorce


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If Michael Jackson, Mariah Carey, Marc Anthony, Diana Ross and many others can get a quickie divorce in the Dominican Republic, so can you. Here are ten good reasons why getting a divorce in the Dominican Republic might suit you too!


Your divorce can be granted in as little as twenty-four hours from the time we receive all your paperwork. This was the amount of time it took Michael Jackson to get divorced in Santo Domingo, for example.
All you do is fill out and mail your information. The lawyers do all the rest of the preparatory work! Normally you have to appear personally for about five minutes, and your spouse does not need to appear at all!
Complete Agreement is not required. There is a unilateral divorce option which allows you to get divorced fast if your spouse is unavailable. (This is in Haiti)
Of course you should settle all your obligations and responsibilities by agreement when possible. However, an offshore divorce can be granted even when an agreement is not possible. In such a case, it simply restores your status as a "single" person and allows you to postpone settlement of all other issues. That means you can get on with your life and remarry while you or the courts continue to work out other disputes.
Don't know where your spouse is? No problem! An Offshore Divorce can still be granted based on your statement that your spouse is no longer available. The process takes days - not months. Kids are no problem. Property and debts are no problem either.
When both parties agree, virtually all marital issues may be settled by a written agreement called a Post-Nuptial Agreement (PNA) which is enforceable through state and local courts wherever you live. This includes matters related to custody, support, property and debts. You maintain full control.
When you go through state court, all matters are decided by the judge. Even if you and your spouse agree on everything, the judge has the authority to change any agreements you make - and he often does! The Family Court in Santo Domingo (where we recommend processing of mutual consent divorces) believes that when two adults agree on matters, the proper business of the court is to simply ratify what has been agreed to. Therefore, you and your spouse retain full control of all matters related to custody, property, debts divorce.
Certification. After your Offshore Divorce is granted, your Final Decree of Divorce is sent for validation to the appropriate consulate. For example, if you are a US citizen, the papers can be fully certified by the appropriate US consulate which grants "full faith and credit" to the signature and seal of the offshore judge.
Price: When you compare an Offshore Divorce to divorces granted in most states or provinces in the US, Canada or Europe you'll probably be surprised to learn that the offshore option is cheaper. This is especially true when you consider the "hidden" costs of domestic divorces such as notarizing documents, certified mailings, service of documents by a process server or law officer, transportation to and from one or possibly even several court sessions, and any court ordered counselling... all of this is, of course in addition to legal fees and court costs.
Also, there's the matter of your time. Time is money. With an Offshore Divorce, the whole process is greatly simplified. You can be done with your part in a matter of minutes instead of hours - days - weeks or even months. When you consider all the costs, Offshore Divorce is remarkably inexpensive!

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Michael Jackson is Being Contacted in the Spiritual Realm - What Could This Mean For You?


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Many people are now claiming to be in contact with Michael Jackson in the world of spirit, could this be true or are they grieving fans who see and hear what they want and not what is real? His birthday on 29th August provoked a frenzy of reports that Michael was indeed responding to his fans' desperate wishes for contact.

There is a huge body of evidence that confirms contact is certainly possible with someone who has passed on, too much for it all to be discounted. I think even total non believers would at least agree to there being something out there that we don't understand.

How could this help you though? Is there someone who has passed over that you would dearly love to have contact from and if so, how could you go about making the first moves? First of all you need to know that a psychic reader is not necessarily the right kind of professional for you at this stage. There are many varying kinds of psychics and the type you should be looking for is a Spiritual Medium who is especially talented in channelling those gone over.

First move for you then would be to be sure that the stage you personally are at is far enough along in your grief so as not to potentially make your situation worse. If the loved one has recently passed then now is not the right time for you to try to contact them. This is for your own emotional well being and to give them the space they will be needing too. If this is you then I urge you to speak to friends and consider grief counselling first. If you do feel the time is right however then begin by checking out Spiritual Mediums online, reviews by others who have tried are invaluable. I wish you well on your journey.

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Where to Buy Thriller Jackets

If you are a Michael Jackson fan then you will probably want to purchase some of his memorabilia and you can easily do this online. You can find your favorite items like the thriller jackets and albums from various websites and online stores.

You can also get these items from other fans that are offering to sell them. Usually you can get special classified adverts for these types of items, but you can also find that people have dedicated an entire website to selling their Thriller jackets and other memorabilia.

You might be wondering why anyone would want to sell these items. Well, there are many reasons. For those collectors they might have too many of the same thing, or perhaps they had to tidy out their home and choose some of their items to sell. You might discover that someone got married and their partner did not want these collectible items around their home.

You never know people's reasons for selling things like a Thriller jacket, so you should not judge and be suspicious of the item. Of course you will want to make sure that you are getting the real deal and that you are not getting something damaged. When you purchase online this is likely, so you have to make sure that you get lots of photos or if you are in the same area, it is advisable to go and look at it in person.

Normally though, the item are sold and bought countries apart, so you will have to take the seller's word that the item is in perfect condition. You can also secure the item and make sure that it is what you want by placing the money into an escrow account. In this way you cannot get the money back, but the seller cannot get it either until you have received the jacket.

Once you are satisfied then you can release the payment. If there is something wrong with it, you can send it back and get your money back. With most Michael Jackson fanatics you can usually trade items. Let's say you want to get the Thriller jacket and someone else wants the signed Thriller Album that you happen to have.

You can easily do a swap which is easy and hassle free. You will obviously have to work out if there are any price differences and sort out the balance, but in this way you can both get what you want.

Monday, September 13, 2010

Michael Jackson's Neverland - Once Upon a Time


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One of the most famous celebrity residences (or once residences) is the Neverland ranch once owned by the late, king of pop, Michael Jackson. This sprawling property has pretty much everything that a kid could dream of wanting.

For starters, it is sprawling in nearly 3000 acres. It is probably one of the few residences in the world to have a theme park complete with roller coasters, merry go round, Ferris wheel and for good measure, a zoo. Unfortunately, the theme park was closed when Michael Jackson's career started flagging (in the 90's), but was a sure beauty to look at during its prime.

The Neverland ranch borrows its name from the kid's story Peter Pan, which is a place whereby kids remain kids and do not get old. The ranch is much akin to what a kid might think of as an ideal place to live, with a lot of attractions and features that reflect a typical child's imagination.

The Neverland estate fell into to sad disrepair when Michael Jackson was experiencing financial difficulties. It was at one point a shadow and sad reflection of it's former glory.

The entire ranch was neglected and looked just as desperate as Michael was (at one stage) and needed an entire facelift (no pun intended). The once famous train station with its floral clock looked had lost it's former glory. The enclosures where Michael had once stored exotic animals looked like a contaminated zone. 

It looked like a child's nightmare never mind a dream, a neverland. However, in all fairness during the past year or so the former glories (at least aesthetically) have returned somewhat due primarily to it's new investment company owners restoring and maintaining it much better than it was under Michael's last management and ownership years.

Further, ironically, now that Michael Jackson has sadly passed away the investment company will have a real financial incentive to get a return as millions of adoring fans worldwide would love to be able to visit Michael Jackson's , Peter Pan legacy.  

Sunday, September 12, 2010

Getting Your Hands on a Michael Jackson Thriller Costume


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The Michael Jackson Thriller video is one of the most famous video clips of all time. That single film clip changed the way film clips were both produced and viewed. The video set the world record for the "Most Successful Music Video", as well as being the first music video to reach the 14 minute mark. The video was seen more as a mini-movie more so than a video clip featuring a singer or band standing in front of microphones either singing or dancing. It also launched the type of video clips everybody became accustomed to when it came to the iconic Michael Jackson.

The video was very dark, under the setting of a full moon, which most people associate with ghosts, goblins, goons, vampires and wolves. This type of setting suited the video down to the ground and the choreography was also something not seen on a video clip previous to this. The dance moves have been imitated by many, but none more than since Michael Jackson's recent passing.

The Thriller Costume as worn by Michael in the video is one which can be quite easy to copy if you have the inclination for such a thing. The red vinyl jacket matched with red pants were fairly simple in design, but also a black "V" which went from the bottom of the back and looped over the shoulder to finish at the front of the jacket. Doing something similar in cotton can be done with decent effect and will allow everybody to understand what you're trying to pull off.

Another way to get put a Thriller Costume together is to look around second hand shops to see if you can stumble across a similar red jacket and pants outfit. The black "V" should be easy enough to copy by using something like black electrical tape or crepe paper sticky taped on. You may also be able to find a red leather jacket in the stores which could also work well.

You can actually hire these costumes from costume hire places, but the price can be fairly expensive. It can end up being costly by hiring them and you also must return them which leaves you with nothing at the end of the day compared to making/buying your own.

By far, the best way to get your hands on a authentic looking costume is to buy one. There are many choices to buying costumes, but the best way is finding Thriller Costumes that are officially licensed and authentic. You can also buy many accessories like the shiny glove and the black fedora hat. To add that extra flare to the costume, buy a wolf mask and become Michael Jackson once the full moon is out.

"It's close to midnight, and something evil's lurking in the dark....."

Saturday, September 11, 2010

Art of the Recording Engineer: From Michael Jackson to Mutant Radio, Matt Forger Speaks Out


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Interviewed by Scott G (The G-Man)

G-Man: When people think of Matt Forger, they usually think of your work with Michael Jackson, Quincy Jones, Bruce Springsteen, Paul McCartney, Glen Ballard, and Bruce Swedien, yet when you hand out a CD with examples of your producing, engineering or mixing, it almost always has new and emerging artists, people like Mutant Radio, Laughing With Lulu, The Dharma Bomb, or Fjaere. What's your thinking behind the choice of avoiding the big names?

Forger: While my association with those big names was a wonderful experience, it's also in the past.

G-Man: But you work with artists at every level, including "the biggies."

Forger: Oh sure, for example, I still maintain a professional relationship with Michael Jackson and contributed to the recent release of "Michael Jackson - The Ultimate Collection," a boxed set, and I worked on many of the previously unreleased recordings that are included in it, as well as overseeing various aspects of the project. This is, of course, very enjoyable to be part of because I got to revisit those eras when I worked very closely with Michael as he created the great albums that established him as the "king of pop." For me, that was a learning experience that had no equal. To be part of history-making projects like "Thriller" and to work with Quincy Jones taught me what it takes to make the best recordings possible. Not just in a commercial sense, but as artistic statements, and what it takes for a song to engage the listener, the power of a collaborative team effort, and what it means to "arrive at the studio and leave your ego at the door." These and the many other lessons learned are what I bring to the table when I work with new and emerging artists.

G-Man: So you're combining the best aspects of past and present. What are some of the contrasts?

Forger: The old model of the record business allowed for the development of talent, coaching it along the way, working with songwriters, arrangers, producers and engineers and learning the craft of record making. That system doesn't exist in today's business model. Today, with few exceptions, major labels look for the most promising bands and artists, sign them to a deal, and if they don't sell the numbers that the companies require, dump the act. Before an act has the chance to develop a following and learn the ropes, it can be all over. That's what it's about now, the bottom line. Corporate business has no heart and no sense of artistry. I want to look to the future, and it's out there. The future of the music business is in the undiscovered talent that flies below the radar. That's who I want to work with. That's the hope of the music industry: the unique, innovative artists who are creating something new and exiting, not regurgitating an old tired formula, or manufacturing synthetic crap with no emotion or heart. I want to be part of the future!

G-Man: If nothing else is read in this interview, I want to thank you for those comments! In addition to the seven Michael Jackson albums, you've worked with Van Halen, Lena Horne, James Ingram , Giorgio Moroder, and many others. Care to comment on the difference between sessions with superstars and sessions with stars-in-the-making?

Forger: In a word: experience. The seasoned pros have one important quality that sets them apart: they have developed an instinctual feel for music. It's that thing that accomplished musicians have. It's an intuitive thing. You learn to trust your gut through trial and error. There is no substitute for it. Some people have it more than others. It's a sensitivity, an ability to see inside the music and read the different levels of what's occurring. Then, to have the ability to recognize and manipulate the elements in such a way as to make a more effective communication of the songs' intent. For newer artists, it's often a matter of helping them identify and tune into those subtle qualities. And, to focus on what is important and what is just background noise that's creating confusion.

G-Man: Let's talk about the diversity of your musical interests for a moment. You recorded a modern-retro band called The Teddy Boys, then you made some dance remixes of a couple of my songs, and you've done live recording for singer-songwriter Caroline Aiken. It seems like you enjoy a wide variety of styles and genres. Do you favor certain kinds of music, or are there any forms of music you don't like?

Forger: I grew up with the pop radio formats starting in the '60s, where you could hear the entire assortment of what was out there. Jimi Hendrix, Frank Sinatra, Roger Miller, The Beach Boys and The Beatles would all be on the same station. When you heard everything from Jan and Dean to James Brown in the course of a few minutes, it gave an overview of what the public in general was listening to. When radio in the '70s became album-oriented, it started to narrow the field of what would be heard on a given station. In the course of my growing up, I always was exploring what was new and different, what type of instrumentation was new and exiting. As trends continued, the influence of ethnic and world beat came to be an interesting movement. There are too many styles of music to name and say that they have all influenced me, but quality has always been a factor. I've worked on sessions from Classical to Country, New Wave to New Age, Pop to Punk, music from all parts of the globe, and it's still exciting and a challenge to work on something new. If there's a form of music I don't care for, it's the manufactured mediocre crap that gets sold as having something to say when it's just pretentious drivel.

G-Man: Again, thanks for making those statements. That's great. When you record live, I know you have a preference for a certain recording technique. Can you tell us about it?

Forger: When the situation allows, there is a technique that I love to use because of its elegant simplicity. It uses a single high quality stereo microphone strategically placed to capture the performance, the event and the environment all at the same time. There is a sonic signature that this technique creates that is unlike any other. It is the capturing of that moment in time, and when it occurs, you capture a great performance. When done properly, it transports the listener to that place and the feeling of being there. This technique seems to work best in acoustic and ensemble situations where the volume is not terribly overpowering. It has the ability to capture subtlety and nuance in the perspective of the dynamics of the moment. This is of course what direct to stereo recording is all about. I didn't originate the technique, but have come to appreciate its power and purity. When an artist is at home with an audience, record the event and have a document of that energy and honesty of the expression of the music. It can be so simple and effective. There are also ways to incorporate this into a larger recording plan and have extra microphones to highlight various sections or instruments. I've done this as well and had very pleasing results.

G-Man: How did you get your start in the business? Was there formal training, or did you just begin recording around the house and hanging out at studios?

Forger: Well, my start in the business was actually when I began mixing live shows. I had done other things before that: classical guitar lessons, playing with electronic stuff and listening to a ton of records and music. But, it was live mixing that gave me the first money I ever earned in music, and the sense that I was on to something that I knew I had a natural ability for. It was being asked to keep an eye on the mixer for friends who had a band. They were impressed that they sounded so much better and that the audience enjoyed the sound. That was my first gig. That led to my learning of all matters related to sound. I read, I experimented, I built my own gear, I asked questions of people I could find who had more experience than I did. There was a guy in my town who was a wiz with electronics, and he had built a recording studio in an old chicken coup. It was a funky place to work but the sound that came from there was amazing. I used to hang out there and just watch and try to learn what was occurring. I would work with my friends and try techniques, mic placement, and experimented with everything we could think of. It was an education by trial and error. It was gratifying when musicians would come by our makeshift studio in the drummers' basement or bass players' bedroom and comment that they were spending good money to record with experienced people at professional studios and didn't have anything that sounded like our recordings. It was all instinct. What was it supposed to sound like? Like all those great records that I grew up listening to - that was the benchmark. I just followed my heart to tell me what the music needed.

G-Man: What are some of the reasons you interact with and support NARIP (National Association of Record Industry Professionals)?

Forger: NARIP is a great organization. It's one of those places that you can go and network with others who are looking towards the future. There are professionals from all facets of the industry, from the creative side to the business specialists. If you are looking for someone with a specific skill or are looking to offer your talents to others, there is always an assortment of people to network with. In the entertainment industry, success is based on who you know more than what you know. When you have both, you have the potential for great things. As an organization, NARIP holds many panel events, seminars, workshops, and just networking get-togethers. The quality of people who attend is always top notch.

G-Man: You're also a participant in organizations like L*A*M*P and Venus Music.

Forger: Yes, these are also great organizations because they play an important roll in backing the independent artist community in the LA area. I try to offer my support to organizations that have, as a goal, the advancement of the independent music community. It's my belief that the music of tomorrow will come from these songwriters and bands. With the major labels no longer developing talent, it has created a void of where one can go to understand how things work on the inside. The artist of today has to learn as he goes, and to help avoid costly mistakes and wasting time and money, there are excellent programs offered by these organizations to help the artist move forward and understand the complex nature of the business. There is also the advantage of being able to build a team of support specialists to help with the areas that you don't desire to undertake yourself. Remember, a collaborative effort can be the most effective way of achieving a goal, especially when the scope of the undertaking is overwhelming.

G-Man: What can you tell us about your current studio gear?

Forger: Simple, straightforward, always an eye to quality. It's not the newest whiz-bang device that sets a studio apart. It's the workhorse, tried and true technology that proves to be the greatest value. Right now I'm using Pro Tools because it's the standard for audio production in the industry. Other systems work well too, but some type of compatibility is always desirable. I compliment my computer system with a selection of outboard gear
that works for my application. I specialize in mixing so I have some good reverbs and effects from Lexicon, Yamaha and Roland. And a mastering chain that creates a good final quality product, Neve compressors, DB technologies converters and TC mastering software in a M-5000 processor. For speakers, I use Tanoys and Custom Altec Monitors. They work for me. Very often, clients will say they don't get an understanding of the sound in the studio. But when they take the mixes out into the real world, they love the sound. That's where it really counts. If it sounds great in the studio but nowhere else, you're on the wrong path.

G-Man: From your studio set-up, I can see that you've embraced the digital world. Is there anything you miss about the analog days?

Forger: There are a lot of things that you get used to when recording on analog tape. The time it takes to rewind, the fat sound, the accidents that occur that turn out to be inspiring, having a track sheet to doodle on. It's great if you can afford to incorporate an analog stage at some point of the recording process. Some styles of music benefit more than others, but it still adds a charming sonic personality when you can. It has come to the point where recording analog is a luxury. For the cost of a reel of two inch tape, you can buy a hard drive large enough to hold several CDs of recordings. Whatever the choice, use the recording medium to its maximum potential.

G-Man: What are your thoughts about tape manufacturing problems?

Forger: It's a sad state of affairs that analog tape manufacturing has ceased. To deprive those who love the sound characteristics that it imparts on recordings is unfortunate. It forces artists, engineers and producers to make choices not based on creative style, but instead on the corporate influence on the business of creativity. I have heard that there will be tape available in the future. It will of course become a specialty item and the cost will certainly become much higher that what everyone is accustomed to paying now. But for those who appreciate it and have the financial means to afford it, it will become a premium option in the recording world.

G-Man: I know you're one of nearly 100 top producers affiliated with StudioExpresso.com. How does that organization work?

Forger: That's a good question because Studio Expresso is different things to different people, depending on your needs. It's a clearing house for engineers and producers, a portal so to speak, for the outside world as well as the industry. If you would like to research an engineer or producer for an upcoming project, the background and contact information is there for many of the industry's top people. If you need to co-ordinate a studio project, then Studio Expresso can help you find a top notch facility, or whatever personnel you may require. If you're traveling to LA to make use of the creative assets the area has to offer, then arrangements and support for your project and stay are also available. Studio Expresso has also been exploring ways to support the independent music movement by helping new and developing talent ways to network and establish contacts within the industry. Claris, who heads up the organization, also manages producers, engineers and other talented people on the production side of the business and offers her expertise and experience in the business to help build their careers

G-Man: If an artist is interested in working with you, what should they do? Send you some material first? Contact you via StudioExpresso.com? Contact you directly?

Forger: While I don't mind talking with a potential client, it's good to establish a dialog with SE first. If there is any question about how to approach a producer, then these types of questions can be cleared up ahead of time. Many times I've taken calls for someone in need of a "producer," only to find out in the course of a conversation that they are looking for someone who will co-write songs, act as a musician, program beats and synths, as well as engineer, mix and produce. Some artists feel that a producer should shop the material and secure a deal for them. In this business, everyone operates differently. I work to facilitate the successful completion of a recording project, regardless of its complexity. It's always good going in to know the specific qualification you're looking for and that you're talking to a person who has the right set of skills.

G-Man: Do you have any thoughts on 5.1?

Forger: Yes, It's a beautiful thing. While Michael Jackson's "Captain EO" was one of the first digital 5.1 theatrical releases, and working on that project was groundbreaking, my area of interest is currently the song, and its emotional content. While 5.1 home theater is growing immensely in popularity, most music today is "consumed" in the traditional stereo format, and to a large extent MP3 is the format of choice when delivered on computer, iPod, blasters and small systems. Almost the opposite of the esoteric environment that a true 5.1 audio system would dictate. And while a listening experience in 5.1 can be very gratifying, most independent artists just don't go there because getting the music out in an effective manner is the priority.

G-Man: Care to comment on the latest format wars?

Forger: My only observation is that it will work itself out in the commercial marketplace. Remember VHS/Beta, Quad sound, Laserdisks, 8 Tracks vs. Cassettes. When viewed from a historical perspective, everyone's hindsight will be 20/20 and the question won't be an issue.

G-Man: What's the weirdest thing you've done in the studio? In terms of sonics, I mean.

Forger: Before the advent of digital technology, you needed to be creative acoustically and electronically. In the song "Billie Jean," when Michael sings the line "Do think twice" at end of the third verse, he's singing through a cardboard mailing tube. We often would record elements in the bathroom (tiled) because it would give it a short early reflection quality. The main percussion sound on the song "Beat It" was Michael beating on fiberboard drum cases with 1x3 inch pieces of wood in the mirrored room of Westlake Studio A. This was all normal. Now if you want to talk weird, on one song (not MJ) we ran a tape loop around the room supported by microphone stands on a two track machine. It was a loop of burps and was keyed by the kick and snare to give the effect of drums that were alive and breathing.

G-Man: What is "The Matt Forger Show"?

Forger: The "Matt Forger Show" is the name credited to the sound design elements that I have created. It was started by Michael when we would work together and often he was in a location that didn't permit visual contact. We only had our voices as a reference. The detachment made it feel as if it was a radio program. It became the name I choose to use for my style of work that combines spoken word, sound effects and music.

G-Man: How would you describe the magic or the fascination of music?

Forger: Music is a form of emotional communication. The combination of rhythmic patterns, melodic progressions and lyric content, communicate and express feelings that we share though common experience. A pop song is a three minute fix of an emotional drug. We are connected through our humanity, and most successful songs speak to this. It is our shared human failings and aspirations that connect us. Whether it's telling a story, expressing a feeling or idea, it's the honesty with which we communicate our inner most self, that allows others to share in the moment.

G-Man: Are there any common qualities you've observed in successful artists?

Forger: There is one quality that I have observed in all the successful artists I have worked with. That is the ability or talent to understand music at an intuitive level. Not just technically or in theory, but at a gut level to feel what is required to make a piece of music work. This is evident in the creative process. When asked for an idea, melody line, counter line, harmony part, arrangement progression or instrument texture, I have noticed that certain very successful individuals are never at a loss. And, while not at a loss, always have ideas that are appropriate for the particular situation and are of the highest quality. They are on the money instinctively, without reservation and with complete confidence. They are, in fact, "one with the music." This quality I can say is what separates the most successful artists with those that aspire for greatness. While it is true this is something that comes with experience, it is also that quality that allows for success to continue. To have your finger on the pulse of what the public feels is one thing, to be able to lead the public with your own sense of what is a true expression of honest emotion is yet another talent.

CONTACTS:

http://www.mattforger.com

http://www.studioexpresso.com

http://www.gmanmusic.com

http://www.narip.com

http://www.delvianrecords.com

Thursday, September 9, 2010

The First Three Steps in the Twelve Step Program of Alcoholics Anonymous


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Alcoholics Anonymous is a program of recovery that is flawless in concept and beautiful in simplicity. It is a program of men and women who share their experience, strength and hope with one another in the day by day process of staying sober. Since it's inception in 1935, millions of people world-wide have achieved and maintained their sobriety through practicing the 12 Steps of recovery. Following the Steps is like learning to walk again, and simplicity doesn't mean easy. The steps are based on sound therapeutic concepts and profound spiritual principles.

The first three Steps are perhaps the most difficult to follow because they challenge an alcoholic's resistance to treatment and his spiritual foundation as well.

Step 1: We admitted we were powerless over alcohol - that our lives had become unmanageable.

Many active alcoholics realize that alcohol is defeating them, but they tend to minimize the problems that alcohol creates in their lives. Their disease is protected by a massive system of denial that is in play while the disease of alcoholism progresses. Step 1 confronts the denial and requires that an alcoholic not only recognize that he has a problem controlling his use of alcohol, but also that the use of alcohol is creating major life problems for him. Recognition of a problem is the first step to opening the door to therapy and admitting the problem is further confirmation in the process. The first Step suggests that one will continue to have major problems if he doesn't find a way to stop drinking because he is powerless over the controlled use of alcohol.

Step 2: Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.

Most alcoholics are clever and cunning, and when they reach this Step, most don't miss the implied meaning of the capital letter P in Power. It has to mean God, they think, and then they see the word God in the next step. It's too much to bear. First, they're faced with giving up the drug that's been their closest friend, always with them for better or worse, and in their decline, many have become severely agnostic. Still, a ray of hope lies in the idea that a power greater than oneself could provide a solution to an alcoholic's dilemma. No one is so self-sufficient to think that they alone are omnipotent. The power greater than oneself could be the Alcoholics Anonymous Group itself or the principles of recovery. This Step provides a deeper look at the problem of alcoholism when it includes the word sanity. If recovery means a return to sanity, then surely active alcoholism involved insanity. Even a treatment-reluctant alcoholic taking a cursory glance at his drinking behavior would have to admit that he was rather insane during many a bout with alcohol. The Step is also the recognition that alcoholism can be treated, and a lead-in to the necessity of making a commitment to recovery.

Step 3: Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.

If the first two Steps haven't alienated the agnostic struggling with the total futility of continuing to drink alcohol, then the word God appears in Step 3. The alcoholic is at a crossroad. He immediately scoffs at the idea that Alcoholics Anonymous might be a religious program. His saving grace is that the phrase "as we understood him" follows the word God. Maybe I can handle "God as I understand him," he speculates. Members of Alcoholics Anonymous assure the initiate that he needn't be overwhelmed with the idea, that many among them were and are agnostics, and that Alcoholics Anonymous is a spiritual, not a religious program. A clever sponsor might add that the alcoholic has been involved with "spirits" for quite a long time and adding another to the mix couldn't hurt. The essence of the Step is that one will begin his journey into recovery only after having made a commitment to do so.

Part of the beauty and genius of Alcoholics Anonymous lies in the idea that a recovering alcoholic stays sober one day at a time. The commitment to recovery is for one day, a 24 hour contract with a higher power not to drink. Our new member is almost certain that he can make it through this day without taking a drink.

In line with the traditions of Alcoholics Anonymous, I have to make it clear that this article is solely my opinion of the program, the Steps, how it works and so forth. It is based on my own experience, strength and hope with Alcoholics Anonymous in my continual day by day program of recovery.

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Michael Jackson Forces Cash Into Your Business?


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Hi there,

Did you notice how some people have made hundreds of thousands of dollars from Michael Jackson's death? I'm not talking about the tasteless ones, but smart thinkers who took action and bought up names surrounding his that skyrocketed in value after his death. Ones who will make a quick $100,000 or more.

And others who took action and used it to bring new found customers into their business too. Specifically what I'm talking about here is how you can use current events to help boost your profits.

It's easier than you think. And it's almost always applicable. An easy way to get people's attention (which is the hardest part of making a sale) is to tie your promotion into current events. And if you're at a loss for current events just pull up cnn.com or watch your local news.

There's always something going on in the world that you can use. Either in...

1. World news

2. National news

3. Local news

Your only excuse for not finding something that works is simply laziness.

So How Can You Tie It Into Your Promotion?

A little creativity goes a long way here. Let's say you own a furniture store. When Obama was inagurated you could have run an ad saying something like..."Obama Forces Local Furniture Store Into Dropping Prices For Inaguration".

And then you go on to tell how you're giving a super sale during the weekend to celebrate the new president coming on board.

Not only is tying in current events into your promotion a good way to get attention from prospects, but it's also a great way to get publicity.

Most local news networks love this type of advertising. And if you run with it many will get involved and give you free advertising (called publicity).

Plus... as an added bonus... if you live outside of a huge metropolitan area most local news stations/papers love to pick up these kind of stories.

You can turn $1 of advertising into $3 or $4.

So what can you do to tie your promotion into current events?

Get to thinking... it'll be worth it!

Vince

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Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Be the Thriller at the Fancy Dress Party With a Jacko Costume


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When news broke that Michael Jackson had died of cardiac arrest aged just 50, the world fell into a state of shock. Thousands of fans travelled to his Neverland home to pay respects and his funeral was attended by guests the world over. There's no doubting that Michael Jackson had a massive impact on the lives of millions of people - which is why so many people are choosing to celebrate the music and life he brought to the world of pop by holding Jackson-themed parties.

Whether it's something simple like a get together to listen to and remember some of Jackson's greatest hits or a giant fancy dress party dedicated to the memory of the late king of pop, there are myriad reasons to look back and celebrate the joy that Michael Jackson brought to the world. His music surpassed boundaries of language, race or religion and was a staple in many 80s and 90s upbringings that saw thousands of young adults grow up alongside his greatest tunes.

All over the world, Jackson fans are coming together to pay respects to the musical magician, and plenty are doing so in style by adding an element of one of Michael's biggest loves - costumes - to their celebrations. Fancy dress parties are occurring the world over with a distinct Jackson theme that are inviting attendees to don significant Jackson-related costumes, from the notorious 'Bad' outfit to imaginative 'Thriller' zombie costumes that can help bring the singer's memory to the forefront of any celebration.

The great thing about Michael Jackson's vibrant career is that he showed off so many wild and imaginative outfits, there's a huge choice of what era in his career you want to represent. There's the shocking red leather of his 'Thriller' days, the dusty black jacket with those famous three-quarter sleeves from his 'Bad' days and plenty of different hairstyles to top them all off.

So whether you're 'Beat It' or 'Billie Jean' Michael, you'll be sure to find a distinctive outfit that'll be instantly recognisable. And, if it turns out you're not the biggest fan of dressing up, you can still show your respects by pulling on a glove and showing off one of Jackson's trademark symbols effortlessly.

There's no kind of flattery like imitation and it's very likely that, had Jackson been alive to see how the world reacted to his death, he would've been the first to join in the partying - so dig out that Michael Jackson tribute costume and start practicing your moonwalk.  

Monday, September 6, 2010

Michael Jackson's Website


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As with almost every other celebrity , Michael Jackson too has his very own website. Often these sites are mere marketing machines and  don't usually exist to communicate with fans but to sell to them. There are exceptions of course and over time I feel the Michael Jackson website has been used for both purposes.

Communication was important for Michael Jackson, more especially when he found himself embroiled in numerous scandals.

Michael Jackson's website is a real treat for his fans. It gives some slices of his life not seen on TV. And since Michael's passing has arguably become more important to fans than it ever was, and at this time of mourning is a kinda tribute site. There are literally thousands of messages there right now, on what has become a tribute wall of condolences.

The official website per-se is not that unique (save the current situation) and is very similar to a lot of other celebrity websites. There are links to download his music in addition to listening online, and videos too. And according to many fans, the videos are the best part of Michael's legacy - especially the Thriller video.

The official website also has links to view his discography and search facility. The album links (unless they are demo free plays) takes you directly to Amazon for purchasing.

On the whole, it is not a particularly intuitive site, It is however, definitely a site worth visiting right now.

Be aware though, there are other Michael Jackson sites worth visiting too, many will give you a different view point to the official line, which can only be a good thing - can't it?

Sunday, September 5, 2010

This is it - The Michael Jackson Movie


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One of well-loved icons in the music industry, Michael Jackson, passed away on June 25, 2009. Jackson died while he was rehearsing for his "come back" concert. Hours of rehearsal footage was captured and turned into a film. It is expected that once released on DVD, millions of people around the world will buy, "This Is It" as a cherished memory. The movie opened on October 28th with a two week run. To satisfy worldwide demand, an audio disk was also released to accompany the release of the movie. The DVD release was to be released in time for Christmas 2009.

Jackson has an enduring legacy beginning in 1964 when he and his brothers formed the Jackson 5. The band is known for many pop hits including titles such as: "I Want You Back," "The Love You Save," and "ABC." While the group did not officially disband until later, Michael embarked on his solo career in 1971.

The king of pop was born with the release of "Thriller" in 1982. To this day, the "Thriller" album still holds claim to the title of Best Selling Album of All-Time. In addition to this honor, four of his other album releases rank "among the best selling" albums of all time. These are the four albums (in chronological order): "Off The Wall," "Bad," "Dangerous," and "HIStory." Along with album titles, Jackson also holds title to 17 number one singles.

The king of pop has the uncommon honor of twice been inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame. He has also received 13 Grammy Awards and 22 American Music Awards.

Saturday, September 4, 2010

The Popularity of a Micheal Jackson Costume This Halloween


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October 31st may be Michael Jackson's biggest comeback ever. If you look at the Man in the Mirror and see yourself as Micheal Jackson, this Halloween you have your chance to channel him. Rubie's, the 57-year-old, New-York based costume company, is the newly minted, official licensee of Micheal Jackson costumes and costume accessories.

The Rubie's deal was finalized after a court hearing earlier this week. In an exclusive interview with ParentDish, Rubie's executive vice president Howard Beige said that they have, "had a lot of inquiries from customers, [and] most of the requests are for teen and adult sizes."

In the costume business, planning for Halloween starts soon after the previous one. So Jackson's death in June put the manufacturing of his iconic ensembles on the fast track.

"Usually a short lead time is 4 months before Halloween," Beige said. "We typically won't take a license after late May. There are always exceptions, like this." The official items should start appearing in stores around September 15th. "We're starting with eight key items," Beige said.

king of pop stock includes: the military jacket with gold on the front; Thriller jacket; a long, straight hair wig; short; curly hair wig, like he sported for Thriller; sunglasses; sequined glove; black, felt fedora hat; and a combination package containing a wig and glasses. But that's only for this year; in 2010 "we'll have a much bigger line," Beige promised.

Rubies is only manufacturing teen and adult sizes this year, but that doesn't mean that you won't see some tiny Beat It boys at your door on Halloween. Enterprising young fans are already making their own MJ costumes. Crystal Seaman, a longtime employee of BuyCostumes in New York sees it coming.

"I definitely think Micheal Jackson will be popular for Halloween," she said. "I've seen a lot of kids come in and buy the hat and do the glove up themselves since we don't have the officially licensed glove in stock yet."

According to Seaman, kids as young as six even want to get the Micheal Jackson look. "I had one kid come in the other day, buy the gloves and glitter spray, do them up and put it on right here," she said. At Halloween Adventure, the gloves come as a pair and blingless. The officially licensed version is already glittered up, and you only get one. The king of pop would probably approve.

Billy Jean will be a great Jackson costume, between the great outfit and the GLOVE!

Bill Jean Backgound

"Billy Jean" was written by Jackson and produced by Quincy Jones for his sixth solo album Thriller. "Billie Jean" was a worldwide commercial and critical success; it became one of the best-selling singles of 1983, and topped both the US and UK charts simultaneously. Cited as one of the most revolutionary songs in history, "Billie Jean" was certified platinum in 1989.

The song won 2 Grammy Awards, and 1 American Music Awards. Its helped the Thriller become the best selling album of all times. he song was also promoted through Jackson's Pepsi commercials; during the filming of one commercial, Jackson's scalp was severely burned. Covered and sampled by modern artists, "Billie Jean" sealed Jackson's status as an international pop icon.

Well what ever costume you choose have a great Halloween!

Friday, September 3, 2010

Michael Jackson's Life - The Most Important Thing to Learn


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Michael Jackson. Where do I even start with this one? The past generation's Elvis. An absolute genius of entertainment. Cultivated from before he could ride a bike and programmed for success. With all the stories and headlines over his approximately 45 year career there has to be something we can learn from such a prolific icon. I heard the stampede of people attempting to market and capitalize on his death. There will be billions generated from his demise. Much of it having nothing to do with his true talents. The news stories, books, products, marketing campaigns to generate traffic, and this is just the beginning. Go right ahead and use his name as you see fit (legally) but I suggest you make sure you feel good about whatever you do. You will remember this moment in history for the rest of your life.

We can certainly learn from the branding and marketing of such a giant and attempt to duplicate even a sliver of it. It's time to recognize that entertainment sells. It generates more revenue than almost any other arena. A formula that works is mixing entertainment with information of some kind. Sprinkle some enthusiasm and you have the formula to making any business flourish. With all of that said I believe there is a much more important factor that will be ignored by some. This is vital for everyone of us to sit up and pay attention to. We have heard similar messages but I believe this time is different. And if it takes Michael Jackson's death to make us listen then he will have impacted lives more after his death than before and that is a true legacy maker. Love him or hate him, he was eclectic to say the least. Misunderstood by most and we will never know most of the truths behind all the accusations. But, we don't need to in order to learn from him.

Many people are sad about his passing at the young age of fifty and rightly so. He was poised for another tour and ready to show the world that he was back. So what can we learn?

Have you learned from this? There is one thing that makes Michael Jackson's death less of a tragedy. The fact that most people go through their daily existence without ever really reaching for the stars. Most do not even remember what it's like to dream. If nothing else, his death should remind us of how we all should live life to the extreme. We should all find our passion and go for it. Michael Jackson let his music out while he was alive. He had more to give but he never sat back and wished about things happening, he went out from an early age and created them. I look forward to you commenting after finishing this, but I see the large majority of people following the sheep. It's time to dig deep inside yourself, find your passion in life, dream again and burn your candle brightly! Go back to school, change careers, write a book, join a theater group, start a business venture that you care about, start a scholarship fund, donate time helping a charity, teach your kids about something that you wish you had learned at their age, and then continue to nurture their dreams. Pick up the instrument you use to play, start running, meditate, call an old friend, smile more and remember to laugh as much as possible. It is a much bigger tragedy to not burn brightly.

Do not die with your music still in you.

Best of wishes to his family, friends and fans around the world. If you choose to listen, his music has touched us and if you choose to care his death has taught us.

Until next time...Create a Great Day!

Ed

Thursday, September 2, 2010

Unbreakable - Michael Jackson Defines Greatness


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When asked what the message of his song "Unbreakable" is in a 2001 interview with TV Guide, Michael Jackson responded with the following: "That I'm invincible, that I've been through it all. You can't hurt me. Knock me down, I get back up."

Michael Jackson is the most successful singer in popular music-history, selling more records than any other solo artist. Due to this success, Jackson is one of the greatest musicians ever. He is also one of the most criticized artists ever, both negatively and positively. Negatively, he has been the subject of almost constant controversy in the media, in part because of his own actions but mostly because of his greatness as an artist, which will be discussed further in this essay. In trying to determine how Jackson has achieved greatness I will look at what he value's most as a person and how what he value's translates into achieving greatness. To see what he values most, I will examine his autobiographical song entitled, "Unbreakable," and use value analysis as the method of critique. In this essay I will thoroughly analyze each verse of lyrics in subsequent order to determine the value presented in each verse, as well as its relationship to achieving greatness. Michael Jackson shows through his song, "Unbreakable" that people become great when they exercise the value of perseverance.

The message of the song, as Jackson commented in the TV Guide interview, is that he is invincible. Proclaiming himself as being invincible seems it cannot possibly be true until the message is explained in more detail. It was a message he was eager to get out, being that "Unbreakable" appears as the opening song on Jackson's 2001 album, "Invincible." Not only was the song the opening one, but it was also the opening one on an album that was his first of entirely new material in six years. The opening verse begins to explain the message of why he is invincible:

Now I'm just wondering why you think

That you can get to me with anything

Seems like you'd know by now

When and how I get down

And with all that I've been through, I'm still around

Here Jackson acknowledges he has been down, but he also proclaims nothing can keep him down. He has overcome all the times and situations he has been down, using the evidence that he is "still around." He has not run away from his obstacles but instead has confronted and overcome them. This verse demonstrates the fact that Jackson will always overcome discouragement. Always overcoming discouragement is what Jackson value's in the opening verse and can be defined more simply as the value of perseverance.

In the second verse Jackson continues to explain:

Don't you ever make no mistake

Baby I've got what it takes

And there's no way you'll ever get to me

Why can't you see that you'll never ever hurt me

'Cause I won't let it be, see I'm too much for you baby

Having previously proven he exercises the value of perseverance due to the fact he is "still around," Jackson begins to elaborate on what exercising perseverance means. In the second line Jackson states he has "what it takes." In this instance "it" is a reminder of the value of perseverance he identified in the prior verse. Due to this value, there's nothing and no one who can control or hurt him, rather Jackson is free and in control.

In the chorus Jackson proclaims his greatness boldly:

You can't believe it, you can't conceive it

And you can't touch me, 'cause I'm untouchable

And I know you hate it, and you can't take it

You'll never break me, 'cause I'm unbreakable

Within the first and third lines of the chorus Jackson identifies two negative values perseverance always overcomes but also always attracts from individuals who lack "it" themselves. In this case as well as before, the word "it" is referring to perseverance or greatness. In the first line, the negative value of ignorance is identified and in the third line jealously is named. Ignorance is a lack of knowledge and only those who lack knowledge cannot "believe" or "conceive" or rather understand "it." Jealousy is a lack of respect or an unwillingness to learn from those who have become great by exercising "it." Jackson follows each negative value with a subsequent proclamation of his greatness, stating that he is "untouchable" and "unbreakable" in the second and fourth lines of the lyric. Being that the chorus of a song is repeated multiple times, it is important to Jackson for everyone who listens to understand and learn who he is and what is greatness.

In the third verse Jackson reiterates the reasons perseverance is the formula for achieving greatness:

Now you can't stop me even though you think

That if you block me, you've done your thing

And when you bury me underneath all your pain

I'm steady laughin', while surfacing

He proclaims he is unstoppable in the first line and gives the reason why in the fourth, stating he will always, by using the word "steady," and confidently, by using the word "laughin,'" resurface or comeback. What someone thinks as stated in the first line, being blocked, as in the second line and being buried as in the third line are all temporary setbacks. Also the third line is an evident example of what someone does when they lack perseverance and instead possess the negative values of ignorance, jealousy or both. Jackson demonstrates someone who lacks greatness does not value themselves and would rather try to negatively criticize or tear down others to help make their personal pain go away than simply learning from others to improve their self-worth. Jackson illustrates in this third verse that perseverance is permanent and obstacles are temporary.

Lastly, in the fourth and final verse Jackson leaves a lasting image of the truth having already proven he exercises the value of perseverance:

You can try to stop me, but it won't do a thing

No matter what you do, I'm still gonna be here

Through all your lies and silly games

I'm a still remain the same, I'm unbreakable

Jackson proves his definition of greatness to be true by using his life experiences in this song as the evidence or proof he persevered, is persevering and continues to persevere to become and remain great. By proclaiming his greatness in this song, Jackson inspires others to also become or remain great by persevering in their lives. Michael Jackson defines greatness as someone who exercises perseverance and through this value a person becomes "Unbreakable."